I want you to eat my pussy. Will you please come home and eat my pussy? I want you to put your big fat tongue right on my tight little cunt. Blow in it. Kiss it softly. Tell my pussy that you that love it. Tell my pussy that you can’t live with out it. Lick it from slit to clit, as slow as you can, making me tremble and close my eyes, imagining what’s next. You want to fuck me, baby? You have to give her a kiss first. I want your tongue to explore every part of my vagina. I want your long tongue inside me when I cum…when I scream your name at the top of my lungs.Click here to Read More
Get me wet and sloppy and ready for your big entrance. I want you to know my body so well that you can make me cum with the flick of your wrist. I want you to brag to your friends about it. When I’m crying in the kitchen, bent over the burnt dinner that I just pulled from the oven for us, I want you to come up behind me to wrap your arms around me, pull up my skirt and whisper firmly in my ear to spread my legs. Then, I want you to pull down my panties, so that they are stretched between my thighs. This is where it’s all up to my baby to decide how fast, slow, gentle, or deep he will go. Depending on how stressed you are, sometimes you shove your fingers into me without warning and finger fuck me hard and fast. You don’t stop, no matter what, no matter how much I squeal and bruise your arms from griping too hard. Fuck me, fuck me, fuck me, I beg you. I give into you and cum really hard, crumbling to the tile kitchen floor, your fingers still in me.
Other times, you go slow and tease my g-spot, making me squirm in anticipation. You know how impatient I am. I always want the dick immediately and I beg like a little whore on the floor, grabbing on to your legs, crying, with mascara running down my face. You never give it to me right away. I hate it. You never let me have my way. You always force me to have foreplay with you, for like an hour. It’s so fucked up cause you know how nervous and uncomfortable I get when it comes to trust and intimacy, which is exactly why you force me to do it.
Sometimes, you let me take the panties all the way off when you finger me. You use them to tie my wrists behind my back as you gently breathe all over my body; the wolf stalking his prey, ready to attack. I think if you stood behind me and just breathed on my neck, I’d get chills down my body and give into you, surrendering my pussy.
I want you to cum in my panties without me knowing. I want you to suggest that I wear that certain pair when I get out of the shower. Later that night, I want you to slide me out of my dirty panties and I want you to put them in my mouth. I want to see that devious smile while your taking me with your big fat dick. I want you to wash my hair, then pick out my panties for bed. Dress and undress me, like your little toy.
It’s all I can think about. I want you to sit on the bed and ask me sweetly to take everything off, except for my panties. Sit and watch me undress. Make me turn in a counter clockwise circle, to show you every angle of my body. Tell me to turn slowly, so you can see everything. I want you to pull me close to you. Locking your finger under the elastic of panties, you jerk me your way. I want you to grab me tightly and put your face in between my big breasts. Tell me how much you’ve missed my tits, as you kiss them and fondle me.
Sit me down next to you and slide my hair away from my collarbone. Begin kissing directly behind my ear, slowly and gently. Take your hand and clasp the back of my neck with pressure, not enough to hurt or bruise me, but enough for me to know you’re a man and you’re in control of everything I do. Tilt my head to the side. I want you to kiss my neck with tongue, adding more and more pressure with each gasp, each moan, each pant. My pussy starts pulsating and I reach for your dick, but you push my hand away. You scold me for rushing you and call me your impatient little slut.
You barely have to touch me. I’m ready for you. No matter how tight I am, your dick is just going to slide right in, because my little pussy will be dripping. Ill do anything to feel your tongue on my pussy, giving me kisses, showing your love and devotion to my cunt.
Sprawl me out on the bed. Slide my panties to one side and brace yourself on top of me. Slide a finger into my slit as you shove your tongue down my throat aggressively. My moans of pleasure are muffled by our kisses, as your fingers work their magic. Graze my asshole with one of your fingers, making me tighten up and try to pull away. Instead, force my head down on the bed and continue kissing me. I want you to rub my asshole, while you finger my pussy with two fingers. My body will convulse and ill beg for you to stop, when in reality, I mean the opposite. I love having my little asshole played with. Hold me like a bowling ball and automatically, ill tell you how much I love you, and ill beg for forgiveness for everything that I’ve ever done wrong to you. I want you to make me apologize to you, multiple times, with your fingers lodged into me, in both places. Ill feel so ashamed and embarrassed, ill cum all over your fingers, daddy.
You don’t want me to come yet though. You slowly slide my panties down my thighs. I’m completely naked now, exposed and vulnerable. You spread my legs open wide for the world to see how big of a slut I am. My cheeks are red and I won’t look you in the eye. You flatten my thighs on the bed and hold them down with both hands on each respective thigh. You look up at me and say, “I’m going to eat your pussy now”. Make sure you hold me down. I want you to slowly take one big thick long lick from the bottom of my pussy to the top of my swollen clit. Slowly. Then, do it again. I will squirm and grip the blankets, but I will slowly submit. The slower, you go, the more it teases me and heightens my level of discomfort. I want you to torture me. Spread my lips with your fingers and lick my clit. Swirl your tongue around it in a circular motion and then put the whole thing in your mouth. Suck on it. Not too much pressure, but just enough to make me uncomfortable. Release your lips and start licking my cunt from my clit down to the opening of my cunt. Shove that big tongue into me. Taste my apples. Repeat this cycle until my body is gyrating against your tongue in rhythm.
It feels so good when you put my little clit in your mouth. Start applying more pressure the more I start to press up against your lips. If I grab you by the back of the head and push you into my pussy, that’s when you know I’m about to cum. Shove your entire tongue as far into my pussy as possible while I climax and cum. I can cum multiple times, so after my initial screaming orgasm, deeply french kiss my little clit and I’ll cum again in your mouth.
Once I stop shaking, I want you to give me another kiss on my pussy. Tell me I’m a very good girl and slide my panties up.
You know it’s there, but you don’t know where. At least you want to find it, since you are reading this. But more than that, you want to know what to do with it when you do find it. This will be a basic introduction to the female sexual organ with the greatest potential for pleasure. Yep, that’s right, not her pussy, but her clit.Click here to Read More
First off, we need to understand a few things about the clit. It is made up of the same type of tissue as your cock. Just as you become erect with arousal, the clit will react similarly. A woman has a dense bundle of nerves here that can respond very intensely to stimulation. In fact, we are just beginning to realize that the clit may be part of a network of nerves and tissue extending to and around the vagina. Some women can have an orgasm purely through sexual penetration. Most women, however, need stimulation on the clit to fully experience a climax.
We are all wired a little differently, so women who orgasm with just penetration may have more nerves connected to her vagina. In addition, there is a spot inside a woman’s pussy that can be more responsive to stimulation as well. This is the G-spot, and I talk about that in a different story. Regardless, the clit is the center of pleasure for almost all women. If you have a woman who can cum from just penetration, great, but wouldn’t you still like to make it better? Pretty much all women can cum from clitoral stimulation and without penetration. Did you read that right? Women can cum with ONLY clitoral stimulation. That is why it is important to understand how to do it.
So you now know you need to stimulate her clit to get her off. Done. Right? Well no, if it were that simple, men would excel. We are creatures who are very good at focusing on a simple, straight forward concept or task and mastering it. This isn’t one of those. There is a lot of subtlety needed to do this right. That is why we need a guide.
You may be thinking, “Ok, the clit is sensitive, responds to stimulation, and is responsible for her orgasm. I just need to rub it until she cums.” Oh if it were just that simple. Just as women are more complex in other ways, that applies here too. If you go in there rubbing (and there is far more to do than rub) right away, she may not let you come back. Imagine if a woman tried to give you a hand job while you were soft. She just grabs ole limp dick there and starts yanking it back and forth. You wouldn’t care for that much would you? Well there are some of you freaks out there who would, but I’m talking to most men.
Unlike women, we respond quickly. If a woman grabs my dick and starts playing with it, trying to give me a hand job, most likely within 30 seconds she will have something hard to work with. This isn’t the case with women. They typically take much longer to become aroused. Foreplay and seduction play a much greater role for them. Her clit needs to be ready to be touched. If you get there early, two things are possible. One, it will be too sensitive, and touching or rubbing will be uncomfortable. Two, she may be able to tolerate it, but by rubbing it too early, it can become desensitized before she can cum. Timing is important. Most women need some build up. Kissing, letting your hands roam other places, playing with her nipples; all of these things can get her aroused. Do them!
Now you know you need to work your way to her clit. How long should that take? Well it depends on a lot of factors. Some women get there quicker than others. Also, how long has it been she has had an orgasm? You’ll notice I didn’t ask how long since she has had sex, but how long since she has had an orgasm. Those can be two completely different answers. Women are usually far better at making themselves cum than we are at making them cum, at least before we have trained ourselves. Does your woman always cum when you have sex? Does she EVER cum when you have sex? If the answer is no to either of those, you are not alone.
Remember I said at the beginning that few women cum from penetration only? So if sex isn’t doing it for her, what is she going to do? Many times she will take matters into her own hand, literally. Does she have a favorite toy? Watch her use it and see what she does to make herself cum. It can be very instructive, and pretty fucking hot too!
Back to the question of how long… So if has been at least a few days since her last orgasm, her clit may respond a little sooner. Also, how tired is she? Is this something she has been anticipating all day? If a woman has been thinking about what you are going to do to her, it’s like pre-heating the oven. Flirt with her during the day. Hint at what you have planned for her later. Does your women like more overt actions? Grab her ass a couple of times during the day and whisper in her ear, “I can’t wait to get you naked later.” You know your partner. Do what works best for you. If you aren’t sure, experiment, or better yet, ASK HER! Some night, over a bottle of wine or your favorite alcoholic beverage, when no sex is planned so there is no pressure, start a conversation about it. “So babe, what do you find a turn on? What can I do during the day to make you anticipate us being together?” You might be surprised at what you find out.
Now I’ll finally answer the question of how long you need to work on getting her warmed up before you should touch her clit. Ready? It depends! Ta da! You hate me now don’t you? Seriously though, it does. What might work one night won’t work another night. Moods are different, circumstances vary. You have to get to know your partner and learn to read the signs. That goes beyond the focus of this story though. For now, let’s assume you can read the signs.
Ok, we’ll assume you have done your job and gotten her warmed up. You have her in the bedroom, on the couch, in the backseat, wherever you plan on doing this. But I will suggest that comfort rules unless you are going for a quickie or you are so hot for each other that you can’t wait. You don’t want to be in the heat of the moment, just about to cum, when your leg cramps. Or the corner of the couch starts jamming you in the side. Or you get rug burns on your knees. Or the sand becomes unbearable. Or the ridges in the bed of the pickup are threatening to break your spine. We’ve all been there. Sometimes the sex is so hot you don’t care. But things just work a little better when you aren’t fighting discomfort.
Next, set aside enough time. You should plan on at least 30 minutes. Yep, there is a time estimate for you. An hour is better. Ideally, for an average woman, 15 or 20 minutes of warmup works best. Then plan on another 10 or so of directly working toward the orgasm. That is the minimum. I like to plan on at least 15 minutes to directly work on her clit and pussy, and 20 minutes is even better. Perhaps 45 minutes is the sweet spot. It gives you time to make out, suck on her nipples, get her slowly undressed and then ample time to work her to orgasm. An hour is better because you can really take your time, and you also have the possibility of working in multiple orgasms. I know what you are thinking. Hold on there mister! We haven’t even gotten one yet and you are talking about multiple? Ok, one thing at a time.
Now we are down to business. She is warmed up, you are down there and ready to start. Go slow. Let me repeat. GO SLOW! Just as you took your time building to this, you need to build to the actual climax too. As I said before, either the clit will be too sensitive early on or you could desensitize it by going to it too early. So tease your way in. For more detail, read my story “Eating Pussy.”
You can stimulate the clit with your finger or your tongue. The tongue is softer, has its own source of moisture, and is just more intimate. So it is usually more satisfying that just fingering her. If you have a choice, are you going to pick hand job or blow job? Yeah, I thought so. Either way, when you first start stimulating it, be gentle and don’t rub directly on it. Rub around it, very lightly brushing it, whichever you are using. As you learn to read how your woman responds, you will get better at knowing when to accelerate the motion and when to move in to the clit itself.
Once she is starting to respond well from your work, the clit should expand a little it and become easier to stimulate. Watch for her reactions and note “the spots” when you hit them. Ask her what she likes, but learn to read her body language. It speaks volumes.
So maybe you are having a hard time actually finding the clit. Can you find her pussy? Well let’s start there then. For this, the finger probably works better. Slide along her slit going up. As you get to the top where her pussy lips close in, that is where you should find it. It may be a very subtle bump or just a different feeling when you rub your finger there. But it is usually covered by the labia. Sometimes is can be right above where the pussy lips come together. Softly rub in that area until she reacts. You might have to do it for more than just a few seconds. Be patient. Let her start to enjoy it.
If you find it with your finger, then move your head down and replace your finger with your tongue. If you tend to lose it in the changeover, then keep your finger on it and put your tongue on your finger, and then slide your finger out from under it. Given some practice, you will learn to find it quickly. Keep working on it, with more pressure and speed as you go. However fast you think is appropriate, decrease it by half. Most women need and want it slow in order to build up to a good orgasm. Again, if you need more help with the techniques themselves, try my story “Eating Pussy.”
Now let’s suppose you have been rubbing or licking long enough that the clit is very aroused, along with your partner. She is about to climax. Don’t let up! Power through, applying pressure and stimulation while she climaxes. However, she can get very sensitive very quickly, so be prepared to back off immediately when she does. Some women can tolerate more stimulation fairly soon after an orgasm, and can even have multiple orgasms. I think most women can, if you know what to do. I’ll write more about this soon. For now, take pride in a mission accomplished.
So what have you learned? Go slow, be patient, ask questions, learn to read your partners signs, and the most important point, communicate with her. If talking during sex is uncomfortable for her, then find another time, away from the bedroom, perhaps even away from any environment where you could have sex, and bring it up in a very patient, curious way. When the pressure to “perform” isn’t there, it is easier for some people to talk about intimate topics.
Above all else, have fun! Enjoy what you are doing. If you can’t find it, don’t get anxious. Laugh it off. Make a joke. She can help you find it, and will if she feels relaxed and at ease with you. Once you have discovered how to give your partner orgasms through clitoral stimulation, just keep practicing with different techniques, motions, and speeds. Women are different and respond differently. Don’t let that concern you. After all, the exploration is part of the fun!
There is perhaps no greater point of contention than the G-spot. Does it exist? Is it just a myth? How does it work? What do I do with it when, or if, I find it? I’ll try to address these questions, however I must admit to being a late member to the G-spot camp. Like many men in their early years, my focus wasn’t always as attuned to my partner’s needs as it should have been. Let’s face it guys, it is pretty damn obvious when we have an orgasm. Women vary. Some can be very subtle while others act as if they are possessed. Men, as a rule, heat up faster than women.Click here to Read More
If we aren’t patient, we get there before she does. To stroke our egos, many women will fake an orgasm then. Unless you know your partner well, it can be difficult to detect if she is faking. I believe I know when a woman has faked it, but I have no doubts that I have missed a few imposters along the way. There is no faking when a man cums. There is a mess everywhere! I had been sexually active for a good number of years before I became truly aware of the power of the G-spot. I’ll share what I know, but I don’t have the same depth of research to draw on with this topic.
So where is this so called “G-spot?” Just like the clit, it can vary a bit in position from woman to woman, but generally it is on the front wall of her pussy, about 1 to 2 knuckles in. That is NOT to say that is the only place she gets stimulation. Our understanding of how a woman is stimulated and attains orgasm has been somewhat of a mystery. However, recent studies suggest that the clit and the G-spot, along with other tissue in the vagina, are interconnected by a system of nerves. I have had partners say they can sometimes feel stimulated on their clit when I am rubbing their G-spot, so I believe this to be correct. Those nerves run along and around the vagina. However the largest concentration by far is in the clit. If you want to be sure your woman cums, the clit is the way to go. Some women can orgasm from penetration, but the percentage is small. Those women likely have more nerves in their vagina and receive enough stimulation that way. Another reason might be that during sex, the penis is rubbing the G-spot just right and causes enough stimulation for orgasm.
You might be asking if every woman has a G-spot or can cum from stimulation to her G-spot. I’m afraid I cannot answer that question. As I mentioned, my knowledge of the G-spot came later in my sexual experiences. I can say that once I started paying attention, I have found that every partner I’ve been with has had one. Some are more sensitive than others. I know that sounds like a broken record that every woman is different, but that can’t be stressed enough. I’ll repeat what I have said in my other stories. Communication and exploration are key. Talk to your partner as you explore. Let her tell you what she is feeling. If you aren’t comfortable enough to have a conversation like that during sex, maybe you should rethink if you are comfortable enough to be having sex. I’m not saying a one night stand doesn’t have an appeal, but even then, if you are only hooking up to fuck, shouldn’t you try to make the fucking better? Just saying…
We know where the G-spot is generally located. So when should we go looking for it? Great question! Just as the clit is easier to find once a woman is aroused, the same applies here, and even more so. If you put a finger inside her within a few minutes of making your move, you may not feel much difference. Likewise, neither will she. Things need to be warmed up for the search to be fruitful. The best time to look is just before an orgasm or after. The nerves are all firing, blood is rushing to the area, and everything is go for liftoff. If you are spending ample time working on her clit with your tongue, she will get worked up. If she isn’t, go read my story on eating pussy.
Once she is very aroused, and very wet, slide a finger inside her. I like to use my middle finger, because it is my “fuck you” finger. Also, it is longer and easier to reach where it needs to. If she is lying on her back, you should be holding your hand palm up. By the time your second knuckle is at the entrance to her pussy, you should be able to feel a slight difference in the feel of the front wall. However, distance and location may vary. Rotate your hand and feel the sides and back walls. They are relatively smooth and soft. Now feel the front wall again. It should feel a little rougher. Not like sandpaper for goodness sakes! This is still a pussy. The difference is subtle. Feel around to see how it changes. It might bulge a little there too. As a woman becomes aroused, this area can definitely swell a little bit. My guess is that women who orgasm from penetration swell quite a bit, making it easier for the head of her partner’s cock to rub it better. I would love to hear thoughts on that from my readers.
If you know she is very aroused, even perhaps after an orgasm, and you still cannot find a spot like I am describing, your partner may just be wired a little differently. It could still be there, but not obvious. Go ahead and try some of the stimulation techniques I will describe in the same general area and see if she responds. If she still doesn’t, don’t fret. You still have her clit to work on. Master your tongue technique and she will be very happy. Trust me.
You can likely feel her pelvic bone there also. Quite often the G-spot is just behind the “ledge” of that bone. Given that you have given her time to get aroused, it is much more difficult to be too rough here than it is on her clit. That is NOT carte blanche to forego being careful and gentle. But you can put a lot more pressure here than you can her clit. Oh, and by the way guys, CUT YOUR FINGERNAILS!! Nothing cools the moment like a fingernail scraping the inside of her pussy. Just practice good hygiene all around, ok?
What I like to do is tease my partner and use my tongue on her clit for quite a while before I start on her G-spot. It is easier to find, and it adds to her orgasm. Sometimes I will only focus on her clit and make sure she has an orgasm first before I ever slide a finger inside of her. Unlike the clit which can become very sensitive after an orgasm, the G-spot is prime for stimulation then. In fact, the G-spot is the key to multiple orgasms. I’ll talk about that in a later story. For now, just remember to wait until she is close to orgasm or has just had one before you start your exploration. It will make your life easier.
Your partner is ready. For the purposes of this description, let’s assume she has had an orgasm. While she is just starting to recover from that, slide that middle finger inside her. Remember, palm up, assuming she is on her back while you were eating her. Get your finger good and wet by sliding it in and out a couple of times. Then on one of those slides back in, start to apply a little pressure on the front wall as you enter. Use a series of strokes to work your way along. Start off with just the tip, yes, just the tip. (Yeah, I love saying that. Sue me!) Each stroke of your finger gets a little deeper, maybe a quarter inch further each time. When you start to feel the difference, that is likely the G-spot. You can go a little further, but you shouldn’t have to get your finger all the way in, unless you have tiny fingers. You may be able to feel the pelvic bone in that same area. With my current partner, I can sort of rub her G-spot against the bone. Experiment to see how much pressure she likes.
The common direction for stimulating the G-spot is to use the “come here” motion of crooking the tip of your finger toward you. That is a great beginning, but it should not be your only move. Expand your bag of tricks! You can keep your finger stiff and slide it in and out of her at a slight angle forward, rubbing the spot with your finger as you do. You can also rub sideways back and forth. On some women, you will feel a ridge of tissue running parallel with your finger. That tissue usually has some good nerve spots in it. Try rubbing your finger sideways back and forth across that ridge. I like to find one motion that is working and stick with it until she orgasms. Then I can change up my technique and bring her to another. Whichever technique you use, go slow. As she gets close to an orgasm, you can speed up, but a slow rub and pressure do a lot here.
Another technique is to push your finger in far enough that is passes over the G-spot, then push your finger against the front wall after it has passed that spot of rough, swollen tissue, You are sort of on the back of the G-spot now and can apply pressure and stimulation with it between your finger and the pelvic bone. It is surprising how much pressure you can apply there and it still feels good. Don’t go all out at first, work up to it. Your partner might not tolerate as much.
You can also try 2 fingers. When I do this, I put one on each side of that ridge of tissue I mentioned. Then I rub them sideways back and forth across that ridge. My best explanation of what it feels like is a tendon. You should be able to feel it almost jumping as you rub across it with pressure, like a guitar string if you put pressure against it and rub across. It will roll under your finger.
Finally my last main technique is to push my finger as far in as I can and wiggle the tip. There seems to often be a spot even a bit further in than the G-spot that can be sensitive. However I usually save this spot for the 3rd or 4th orgasm. She needs to be pretty worked up for that one to bring her off. The orgasms she has can feel very different. My current partner will say that some feel very localized while some she can feel all through her body. Rubbing, stroking, and applying pressure on the various areas will cause different sensations. Again, explore and find out how your woman responds to them.
One other approach is to do this while your partner lies on her stomach. If you are between her legs and behind her, you will rotate your hand so it is palm down. For some men, this is more comfortable. Also, the woman can straddle a pillow, a stuffed animal, or anything that rubs against her clit. It can feel good to grind against that while you are exploring her pussy and stimulating her G-spot. In either position, you may try a vibrator on her clit at the same time.
We have talked about using the finger to stimulate the G-spot. However you can do the same with your cock. My first true realization about the G-spot was with a woman who was very sensitive there. You could pretty much make her cum at will. In the cowgirl position, the head of my cock hit her G-spot perfectly. We found just the right angle and we lost count of how many orgasms she had. It was dozens. I don’t say that to brag as I have never accomplished anything close to that before or after. She was a true exception. I will admit it made me feel like superman though! The point is, find an angle where you can rub across her G-spot with your cock as you fuck. While doggy style is fun, it can be difficult to stimulate her properly that way unless you take a pretty sharp angle down into her. That isn’t always comfortable. With missionary, again depending on the angle, a pillow under her helps, you can slide against the G-spot with a little effort and practice. Cowgirl works well too. She can take a more active role in finding the angle that works for her. I have also found a position I like where the man is on his back, the woman is on top facing away, but the man’s legs are on the outside of her legs and on top of them. She is almost in the doggy position. If your cock has a downward curve, this might work even better for you. Try out the different positions and concentrate on trying to hit that spot on your strokes.
A good number of women have stronger orgasms through their own efforts than when having sex. Using a vibrator on her clit can bring an intense feeling. It can be difficult for a man to replicate this with either his fingers or his tongue. Here is the great news guys! While there are toys out there that supposedly stimulate the G-spot, none are as flexible and effective as your finger! To have enough rigidity to penetrate her, and also hold the electronics for the vibration if the toy has it, it loses the ability to bend and adapt. Your finger is extremely adaptable. This is an area where you can excel! Take advantage of it!
You have a lot to try out. The G-spot isn’t nearly as straight forward as the clit. Many women swear they don’t have one. Obviously I can’t know for certain, and we agree that women do vary. However I suspect that a woman who says that has just never had any luck finding it herself, nor has she had a partner that was willing to put in the work to find it. It can be elusive and may take a lot of arousal before it really wakes up. However, if you do find it, you open the gate to many more opportunities to pleasure your partner.
How do you become the best cocksucker in the known world?
Preamble — admiration and talk
Admire his cock. This is a fabulous toy for us girls, sensitive and strong and fuckable. Get to know it. Love the velvety cock-head, and the long hard shaft. Get to know it up and down. Look at it. It’s an amazing gorgeous thing.Click here to Read More
Be interested in the cock. If you’re not monogamous look at a few cocks. but if you are look on the internet. You don’t have to fuck them — most men will settle for a blowjob if you’re offering. So look at them. And whilst you’re doing so, admire them verbally. Tell them what a beautiful tool they have. Admire its hardness. Tell him that that the cock head is fabulous, all big and velvety. Feel his balls, tell him you hope there’s something in there for you.
If you’re shy this can be hard but you don’t need to say much. “You’re lovely.’ will do. Decide what you want to call it. My partner just likes “you” as in “darling I want you in my mouth…”and sucking him till he cums we call ‘the thing.’ But most people are bolder. ‘Your cock’ is common. Jed called his Cyril in my Jed stories. Ian, who was part of my football team cock-sucking pledge, called the Monster when it really wasn’t, which was sweet and fun.
Fingertips and Touch.
Begin with touch. You can start with your fingertips for this. You don’t have to — you can go straight to mouth work, but a touch first shows him where you’re going and will get him hard. Just a gentle touch. His cock-head is very sensitive and will like it better if you wet your fingers, first. Gently stroke his shaft and cup is calls. Comment. Say that feels good. Ask him if he likes that. Do you, baby? Can I go down there? I really want to know how you taste…
Careful with your nails.
What do you do with it? He might have retracted it and he may not have one, but if he does it needs sliding back. If his cock is already erect this needs to be sensitively done or you could hurt him. It’s not easy to do it with your mouth if you’ve not practised, but you can slide it back with your hands. Wet hands. You can lick him and salivate on him first to lubricate this process but in these instructions we don’t start oral till the foreskin is back.
If he has a foreskin, then when it’s back there’s a tight bit at the edge of the cock-head (glans) where it attaches. That’s often a really sensitive place on him, a place to play with with your tongue and lips. See below.
Licking – your tongue
Think about how to use your tongue. There’s the flat of your tongue and the tip. One approach to oral is to start very gradually and work up to the full deep throat.
Places to lick:
The shaft — he’s not always wildly sensitive to you licking his shaft, but I you do it from bottom to top slowly, looking up at him, then he’ll get very hot as you look all subservient and it’s a promise of what’s coming. The shaft need a bit more than light licking, but I sometimes open with it.
The cock-head. This is a really good place to lick, try with the flat and the tip of your tongue. Explore his cock-head. Ask him where it feels good. If he has a foreskin the attachment feels good. My man loves me to circle his cock-head with my tongue repeatedly, whilst I moan. I’m always moaning as I genuinely love this stuff. So practice licking with both types of lick. You can go back to licking later if you want to slow the action down, give him a really deliciously long blow. I often start with a little licking, then draw him right into my mouth and stroke his balls. But more of that later. The very front of the cock-head at its base is a good spot for tickling with your tongue. They love it there.
The balls. Men vary on this. Seeing you licking his balls is a big turn-on, and some men love the sensation too. Hairy balls are tough like this as you get a mouthful of rather wiry hair and it gets in the way of lip ad tongue to skin contact. But lots of men shave their balls, and if he has it’s a clue he might enjoy ball licking. Ball licking a shaved is really lovely as you feel them moving and tightening inside. Note, if you’re on his balls he might like you to touch or lick his butt hold too.
Maybe not really part of a blow job but he may like a little of it if you’re down by the balls. More useful is butt fingering as you suck him off. Be gently first. Don’t put your finger in unless you want to and he seems to want you to. Some men don’t like it, possibly they think it challenges their manliness. But press on and rim the asshole with your wet finger and ask him if he’d like more.
Once you’re doing the full oral then use your tongue as you go. You can have the shaft going in and out of your mouth whilst you circle his cock-head with your tongue, for example. He will love that. Or running your tongue fast round and round and all over the cock-head whilst you very gently rub his well lubricated shaft is great. More on rubbing later.
Licking whilst he face fucks you is more difficult to control, although you can do it if you concentrate and he’s not too fast — and licking whilst deep throating is more than I can do as you need the tongue out of the way in order to get the cock down as far as it will go.
Lips — sucking and kissing
Lips can do a lot of what tongues can do, and they can suck. Lips are drier than your tongue and produce a different sensation. I sometimes cover his cock-head with tiny kisses. As I lick and kiss it I tell it/him that he’s beautiful. Oh God, I’ll say, oh that’s lovely. If you’re bold you can say, I’ve been thinking about doing this all day/all night/ever since I set eyes on you.
This again is a starting off manoeuvre. By later in the blow you’d only do it to back off and rest him. But kissing his cock and balls all over early in the process allows him to work out what he might like. Especially if as you go you say, tell me where it feels good, baby.”
Sucking is interesting. We don’t do a lot of actual sucking, when sucking cock. But if you do suck hard on him as if he’s a lollipop, applying suction to the to half of his cock and then pulling away, you’ll make lovely slurping noise which will turn him on.
In the end he needs a rhythm from you but a few sucks are a good start. And a good chance to remind him you’ll swallow (good dirty talk is “I’m going to suck the cum right out of you…”
As he builds towards cum lighten up a bit. You don’t need to do this hell-for-leather. Enjoy the anticipation. Keep on sucking and licking and rubbing, but just do the top half of his shaft now. Listen to him. Do you here ‘god that’s gorgeous’ or ‘oh yeahhhh’?
Mouth and cheeks — oral fucking
More of this under face-fucking and deep throating, but the inside of your mouth can really be a tool for his pleasure. You need to keep your lips over your tongue — you get better at this, believe me. You need to keep your lips as tight around him as you can, suck your cheeks in, and use your whole mouth to massage his shaft up and down in soft lovely strokes. Stay on him for the upstroke as well, hold his balls whilst you’re doing it.
I often start by taking him suddenly into my mouth then holding him there. It’s warm and wet and it shows him I know what I’m doing. I hold him right in my mouth and circle his cock-head with my lips. Then I start to thrust him back and forth in my mouth. I’m in charge of this, and I can experiment with how deep I want him, and gauge slightly how far he is from cumming.
Hands — rubbing and stroking, the art of cock massage
It’s lovely if you can keep your mouth on him for all of it, even if it’s just you holding his cock-head in your mouth whilst you stroke and rub his shaft. Your lips may get tired if you are doing the rubbing — i.e. you’re mouth-fucking him, and you may need to rest them if they’re not practised. If he’s face-fucking you, incidentally, you don’t apply as much pressure with the lips as your throat takes most of the impact and it’s easier to take his repeated thrusting all the way to the cum spurting.
Think of it as a cock massage. Love that cock. Pleasure that cock. Play with it and coax it and adore it.
But there are lots of ways of rubbing. You need to be well lubricated but you can do
Two hands or one hand
Varied rhythm and speed
Straight up and down or with a turn and a twist as you slide up and down
Handling the whole length of his cock
Stroking just the base as you suckle and gobble on the top
Sucking and licking on his cockhead as you massage and stroke just the top half of his cock
This is a huge variety, particularly with the variations you can do with your mouth. It means virtually every blow job can be different from the one before. You’ll find out what he likes that way.
Face-fucking and deep throating
I’ve put these together but they are actually a little different. Most face fucking involves deep throating, but you can deep throat without being face fucked.
Face fucking is when you stay still and he does the moving. Generally, he’s in the dominant position. Many men like to face fuck from standing with you lying on your back in front of them, your feet pointing away from them. The cock then tends to point down your throat as if goes into you, and if you can relax and you’ve overcome your gag reflex he can fuck quite hard. You can still breath, and you can caress his balls of finger his butt as he does it. You do need to keep your teeth out of the way. This comes with practice.
Some men won’t face-fuck. They love you too much. It’s too horny and they feel bad. But they want to and you can encourage them. You can’t say ‘fuck my mouth’ when your mouth is full of cock, but you can pull his buttocks into you, and you can put yourself in a position where the only way the two of you will get a cock-sucking rhythm is if he does the moving and face-fucks you. Face-fucking puts him in charge. It’s loveliest when it’s slow to start with. I don’t mind if they speed up — although too fast and it’s really hard to protect them from your teeth.
Deep throating is when you take him down your throat as far as he will go. Face-fucking generally deep throats you but you can also do it without him thrusting. Your face needs to be right against his balls. Feel him in your throat? Swallow on him. He will feel the swallowing muscles grip his shaft and he will love it. Keep him right down there and then fuck him from that position. Swallow as often as you can. And whilst you’re doing it, stroke his skin — his balls and his butt hole are obvious but stroke the skin of his thighs, his stomach, his chest, his arms. You are in control of this sort of deep throating, which is my absolute favourite think out of all blowjob experiences. Vary the speed. Vary the pressure. Vary how hard you come up and down. Vary the angle slightly so you alter where he hits in your throat.
It’s not hard to over come your gag reflex. You can practice with a banana but I only ever practiced with a cock. There’s only so much fun you can have fellating a banana.
Speed and rhythm – fast and slow
What rhythm should you adopt? This is where you should experiment Find a rhythm that works for him — although if he’s getting too out of control and you want him to last you need to change it. I find if I go too fast that’s when my teeth rub my lips a bit. Fast face-fucking by him can do this a bit too, specially if he had hold of your head. That’s a bit rigid for me, I like face-fucking to be gentle, and I like him to moan and sound like he’s my slave. Can’t bear anyone saying ‘suck that, bitch.’ I’d tell them to suck it themselves. But you may get turned on by that stuff and that’s fine.
So find a rhythm, and go with it. Whatever you do — mouth all the way down, or a combination of mouth and hands and tongue, do it for a few minutes. Work on it. Get it just right, then as he’s really into it change for something else. Generally, as the blowjob proceeds get hotter and hungrier. Slurp more. Moan more. Imagine you are worshipping his cock. It is your absolute focus, that cock. You need to keep it wet and hard — imagine you’re moulting a clay pot on a potter’s wheel. You mustn’t stop for a moment, and you want mouth contact as much as possible.
Look at him — guys love to see your face looking at them as you suck their prize. This is not easy. Some girls are too shy to look up. Actually I am. I could drink cum all night but I can’t look at him. Feels too silly. So there’s a confession, but I do make sure he gets to see some of what I’m doing. And I know as he starts to cum he’s looking at me. If you can’t make yourself, then at least come up from time to time and rub so that he can see you doing it. Men love watching you on their cocks. They’re proud of their cocks, but they’re fascinated by the sight of you adoring them.
Where are the sensitive spots?
Find them. Men vary. He may have different sensitive spots for tongue, lips, pressure – the tip of the cock-head loves to push repeatedly against the back of your throat). Find out if his butt-hole or his balls turn him on. Adore the whole of his pelvic area, not just his cock. Hold his hands. If you love him that’s very special as it reminds him this is love as well as lust.
Most men are tender at the front of the cock just at the base of the glans. A lovely guy on literotica told me that’s the place to keep stimulating with your tongue as he’s actually cumming and spurting his load into you.
Grabbing his buttocks and urging him in
One nice technique, especially if you’re kneeling and his cock is in your moth, if to take control by pulling his buttocks into you. Grab them and pull him in as far as he will go. You can control the speed and he will love the feeling that you’re so hungry for it you can’t get enough of his cock into you. He may arch towards you, anxious to get that hot tool right in your throat — but help him, show him you and to gobble him like never before.
There’s not a lot of this on the internet as they like to show you men in charge, or fem-dom, whereas this is just a bit of initiative on your part. You can imagine it. Pull him in, hon. Be hungry for his cum.
Make the conversation about him, and about his cock. He loves his cock. He looks at it a lot. Tell him how lovely it is. Be accurate. Don’t tell him it’s the biggest you’ve ever seen if it’s small. Tell him it’s the most gorgeous. Tell him his cock really turns you on. Tell him you love the way it curves, or you love circumcised cocks, or you love the colour. Tell him has had the most suckable cock you’ve ever seen and you are hot just looking at it. Tell him you hope his balls are full because you want it all, honey, you want to swallow him down.
If you tell him – right from the start – that he can cum in your mouth, that you want to feel his hot calls spurting into your throat, that you would love to take his cum, that its gorgeous — then he’ll relax. He may want to check again later if he doesn’t know you well, but beg for it. Please cum in my mouth honey, I want to swallow you, you’re all mine. Be possessive. You’ve been saving it for me honey.
Slowing him up — stopping the cum
If he’s getting ready to cum and you want to make him wait, cos you’re playing with him and you want to prolong his please, and yours, there are a few ways to do it. One is to simply change techniques or rhythms. If he’s too far gone this won’t work, and in any case you might pick something even more delicious to him than the first thing. My partner loves me to lighten up towards the end, doing gentle wet rubbing strokes on the top half of his shaft and kind of slurping and sucking and licking and gobbling the end of his cock in a regular rhythm all at once.
But you can stop him. Firm tight pressure on the front base of his shaft where the little tube runs. He will be able to show you where. You press there with the flat of your thumb and ease off, and he can wait a bit longer.
What to do as he cums
He will moan and may cry. He may thrust at you. He may beg you to let him cum before he does (can I cum/ please can I cum?) and you need to show him, with your enthusiasm and moaning, that you’re ready for it. Or come off, stroke twice, and then say I would love you to cum, right here right now — then get straight back on there. And he’ll start to moan. And then his balls will move and tighten up and he’ll cry — this may be, if you’ve given him a really good blow job… a long drawn out spasm. You can do several things at this point — just don’t come off too soon.
He feels the cum on its way before it comes out, so his orgasm begins before you get the lovely spurting. So as that happens get right down on his cock. Don’t be half hearted about it — this is the moment.
You can hold still, holding him tight in your mouth and keeping suction on. If he’s become very sensitive he might prefer it.
You can roll your tongue on his most sensitive place, just at the base of the glans at the front. You could maybe try rimming his butt with your finger at the same time if her likes it.
If you have him keep in your throat it’s lovely to swallow from that position. He will feel your swallowing muscles taking his cum, which he will love. If he’s a guy who stays hard after he cums, even for a little while, this can be very satisfying to both of you.
You can keep moving. Be gently, don’t go at him like a carwash but you can keep fucking him with your mouth as he spurts. Lots of guys love this too, and if it’s combined with deep throat swallowing, as above, it will really please them.
As you take the cum moan, and swallow, and cares his balls. Hold his hand if you have a spare hand. Some men like you to put a finger in their ass — but of course some like a dildo up there and you’re getting out of the realms of Clover’s experience there. Not easy if you want to really focus on his cock.
Do I swallow?
Oh god yes. Yes yes yes yes. The prize, the bounty, the very essence of this man you fancy/love/lust after/owe. Drink it down honey and get used to it. If you are deep throating you don’t taste it much, but otherwise, swallow. Enjoy. It’s salty. Sometimes it’s bitter although in my experience healthy men who don’t eat lots of spice and garlic and who don’t smoke have cum that tastes like being at the seaside.
There may be lots of it — half a cup full — or not very much. Depends when he last emptied his balls. Hold his balls. Massage them very gently. You want it all, girl.
maybe you don’t want this much……
This is something he has worked for. This is like — as I have said before — him bringing you a woolly mammoth as you line up your tins in the Neanderthal cave. He has worked to produce this cum and he’s worked to pump it into you. Accept the gift. If your granny knitted you a jumper and gave it to you for Christmas would you chuck it away in front of her? Well then.
There are about 5 calories in one ejaculation. You will not get fat from this.
Swallowing it accepts him, owns him completely. It’s powerful and erotic and fun. Learn to love the taste — you will.
If you haven’t deep throated much his cum back there may make you gag, so don’t deep throat his orgasm the first time — awful for him if you choke on it.
But swallow, Stay on his cock and suck it clean. If any escaped go after it. Tidy up like a little hamster, licking and feeding off his cock. He’ll love it.
All this is much neater but it’s also much more erotic for most men. They may cum all over women in porn but that’s so that you, the viewer, can get a good view. There aren’t so many cum-shot gifs online showing swallowing as there’s not a lot to see. But he feels it.